Never extraordinary enough
We place ourselves on hold until we do something wonderful. We do it because we are chasing life instead of living it. Until that happens we are living on potential and living as if we were constantly operating on default. I will be enough when I make enough money, when I have a relationship […]
read moreWhere fore art thou love?
It’s that time when people think of romance. I was on the bus yesterday and a woman said Valentine’s Day is coming up we women better stick together and I thought that was sad. I speak to many men and women who have a hard time finding a relationship. It doesn’t matter if their a […]
read moreI’m finding myself have you seen me?
Having it all is a useless idea frantic enthusiasm and over-hyping who you are is the new way of being. I am annoyed at websites promising to give you your every heart’s desire. No one has figured out how to do that and the hubris that goes into that promise is ridiculous. Sit emptor caveat. […]
read moreHow to find the one in a crazy world (Millennials please weigh in)
There has always been a debate of which comes first having an emotion or a thought. Which one happens first? I vote for the feeling. If I am walking home late at night and I sense someone is coming up behind me very quickly my heart goes double time and I feel startled out of […]
read moreIn 2014 I want
The Winter Solstice is liminal space, between darkness and light. After a cycle into darkness, we reach the shortest day of the year. The Sun makes its return, as the days get longer. It is an ending and a beginning… it is an opportunity to begin to set into motion what you’d like in your life in the coming year. So every year (sort of) I do my New Year’s Resolution
read moreAn hour a day keeps the blues away how to really spread holiday cheer.
The other day I took my love to see Pippin for his birthday. Big mistake not that the show wasn’t wonderful but we were in the middle of Times Square with hundreds of tourists shuffling along. Basically a New Yorker nightmare. I needed a blast of happiness fast! Especially because I haven’t done my holiday […]
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I don’t want to get fat over the holidays!
You’re going to the Holiday feast and it won’t be just one. Let’s face it you are going to party until you groan out of bed on January first! That’s quite a few meals and drinks away and I don’t know about you but I have a wedding dress to fit into so I do […]
read moreGratitude over Thanksgiving
I had a strange notion of what gratitude was. Whenever I thought of gratitude I remembered my mom yelling at me during my teens that I didn’t appreciate anything. Carrying that forward I missed the point of what gratitude was. I got it mixed up with feeling guilty that I had things. Fast forwarding to […]
read moreDo I really have to go to work on Monday?
How to deal with the stress and anxiety of Monday mornings
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